Dating, Seduction, Women and All that Stuff...

The game is a rage amongst people today. Young and old. Ideas are floating around and are constantly being created to "educate" men about how to deal with women for their specific needs.
Arguably, there is a sense of urgency in the whole concept of finding a mate. Let me now explain what I mean by urgency.

The experienced gurus/players or whatever they call themselves have produced nice packages of information and accounts of experiences that they sell. People read this and do have success with women. They defintely do understand the pattern of thinking some women have. They do not have to experience from their mistakes or errors like the pros did. Customers just spit out either canned material or some variation of it to get what the rule book says they would.

Now, that the notion of urgency is somewhat clear I am going to make a bold statement in some time. Before, that let me tell you that I am not an experienced dater or anything of that sort. I just do what I am passionate about, namely computer science and rowing. Did I say computer science...yeah the picture of a nerd might just crop up in your mind. Ok! so what. Apart from these favorites of mine I also have other joys in life such as writing, playing the electric guitar, talking, philosophy, science of design etc etc. Given that I have some primary interests and some peripheral ones I find that I do not have any time in the day to comtemplate mastering the art of dating. Is it necessary. Hell it is...but at the cost of what ? Think about what you would be missing out on just to transform yourself into someone else. I think I can boast of confidence and power and what not just by being an expert in what I do. But, humility is second nature to me :-)..

Ok to cut the long story short for now..as this just my first post on this topic...
I think just do what you do with passion..if its something cool and if its atleast two orthogonal things the women better notice you..if not they dont deserve your attention....from there...once contact it is made..its just an agreement....an implicit and a mutually beneficial one.

About this Blog

Hi, let me introduce myself. My name is Sagar Sen. At the time of this writing I am about 24 years old and situated in the city of Rennes, France. I have created this blog to share my daily experiences primarily about two things. One is Rowing and the other is Model Driven Engineering. Apart from this I will also write about my other interesting experiences in my life.